
Day 1
November 12-15 I went to Dallas, TX for Lead Now/Fusion 2008. Lead Now is organized by Right Now (You should check them out at www.rightnow.org) anyways…Lead Now is an event for leaders of 20’s & 30’s to come together hear ideas/share ideas/and get some much needed guidance on Young Adult ministry. There were lots of Main/Breakout Sessions with speakers like Erwin McManus/Francis Chan/Margret Feinberg/Todd Phillips/Matt Chandler/& Donald Miller to name a few. I took some notes so I thought I would just share those with you and I would love to hear your comments.
The first speaker was Todd Wagner. He is the Senior Pastor at Watermark Community Church in Dallas, TX. Here are a few things that stuck out to me.
-A commitment to be misunderstood.
My understanding being as leaders we should not be afraid to tell people what we believe even if we know it might not be what someone wants to hear.
-The ability to speak the Truth in Love
As leaders the Truth (I think he would say Biblical Truth) should be spoken no matter what because that is the Loving thing to do. He told a few stories as an example of this. Both of them involved encounters with homosexuals. One at church, one at an Ice Cream store (or whatever you call a place you get Ice Cream.) In his “Truth in Love” he kindly explained his personal/congregations Biblical view on homosexuality. He threw in his conversations that homosexuality was no worse than heterosexual perversion (a nice touch). I guess you see what his view of the matter is.
He also made a comment which I don’t have time to really get into but He said that no where in the Bible does it speak against the death penalty (Here is an article by Dr. Pete Gathje my ethics professor in Seminary just thought it might add to the conversation http://www.kcadp.org/Resources/Death_Penalt_as_God’s_Justice.htm.) He didn’t explain how he came to that conclusion but none the less he did say it. In my book not a strong start to this weekend but it was certainly honest and we all could learn something from someone who at least was being honest.
The next speaker (and a surprise speaker) was Marcus Buckingham (http://www.marcusbuckingham.com/home.php.) I had no earthly idea who he was but I am glad I do now.
He talked to us about all the research he had been doing and pouring into his book/DVD The Truth About You. What he explained is human beings focus on strengthen our weaknesses over improving our strengths and that we should be trying to improve our strengths which in turn improve/overshadow our weaknesses.
Weakness- Anything that drains you
Strength- Something that you do that makes you strong
He told us to take a normal week of our lives and write down on a piece of paper everything we do. Put them in two sections… Loved It or Loathed It (I like experiments:)
In doing this you will see the SIGN of strengths
Success (Things that you are effective at)
Instinct (Things you look forward too)
Growth (Things that keep your focus)
Needs (Things that fulfill you)
And you will see the STOP of weaknesses
Stop (Doing what weakens you) and if you can’t stop doing it then…
Team Up (To help in strengthen your weaknesses)
Offer Up (steer towards becoming a strength)
Perceive (See it from a different perspective)
He made points that seem so obvious but were things that I had never considered. I, like most people would see my strengths and go yeah that’s great but what about those weaknesses…doesn’t it just make better sense to spend more energy doing things that invigorate us and less time doing things that don’t. It does but we sure do spend a lot of time on trying to fix shortcomings and weaknesses. It reminds of this scripture “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. – 2 Corinthians 12:9 How does that fit? It would be cool to hear your thoughts…I guess I see it as God has given me those things that fill me, drive me, inspire me (my strengths) and I should feel free to use those in service to Him. Those weaknesses only serve me when I understand that the less of me and the more of God (the creator of my strengths and my strength for that matter) that shines in me well then as Paul says Christ’s “power is made perfect in my weakness.” All this to say…go check out Marcus Buckingham
There is more for Day One but I will save that for another day…
Peace,
Nathan